UNLOCK YOUR MARRIAGE WITH THE PRIMAL QUESTION.
Couples who are looking to not only stay married, but stay friends, work with me to build their dream marriage.
In a free 30-minute session, I’ll help you uncover what’s keeping you stuck and show you how to build friendship again. No or pitches—just a conversation to help you reconnect.
The Nightmare
More suspicion than trust
Lacking intimacy
Repeating the same fights
Regular miscommunication
No real plan to move forward
The Dream
You assume the best in each other
Exploding with joy and intimacy
Safe and honorable disagreements
You both feel seen and heard
You have an actual plan to build a loving and lasting marriage
Build a strong foundation in your marriage by understanding the primal question that drives everything you and your partner does!
A KEY TO A HEALTHY MARRIAGE ISN’T STAYING MARRIED, IT’S STAYING FRIENDS.
Anyone can share a house, a calendar, and a last name.
But real connection? That comes from friendship.
From inside jokes, unfiltered conversations, late-night takeout, and showing up for each other when it matters most.
At Lovebirds Coaching, we believe the healthiest marriages aren’t perfect—they’re rooted in friendship. And that kind of bond doesn’t just happen. It’s built over time, with small choices, honest conversations, and the willingness to grow together.
That’s what we write about every week—real, practical insights to help you build a marriage that doesn’t just last, but thrives.
If that sounds like something you’d want in your inbox, we’d love to invite you to subscribe to our Substack. It’s free, it’s real, and it’s designed to help you and your partner keep showing up for each other—as friends, as lovers, and as teammates for life.
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What friends are saying.
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Ben & Hadley
Travis facilitated conversation on topics we wouldn’t have discussed ourselves (or even thought to) in a welcoming environment where we both felt supported. He has a rare mix of being able to deal with serious topics while providing an authenticity of self that any couple would benefit from.
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Ray & Angie
Pre-martial counseling with Travis was extremely beneficial for our marriage in that it provided a safe space to have meaningful conversations about our future. After over 4 years of marriage, we still reflect on the topics discussed during counseling. If you’re thinking about seeking Travis’ help, we highly encourage you to take the leap!
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Eric & Alyssa
Pre-marital marriage counseling sounds uncomfortable, but Travis is such a genuine and thoughtful person that made us feel very comfortable. He truly cares about the health and the growth of our relationship. We also felt like there was no judgment from Travis and we could discuss any topic with honesty and respect. With his experience and personal touch, he gave us a great set of tools and perspective to incorporate into our marriage and life in general.
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Trevor & Mackenzie
Premarital counseling with Travis was an incredibly positive experience for us. He offered a safe, comfortable space for us to discuss topics we wouldn't have otherwise, with kindness, thoughtfulness, and genuine interest in our lives as a couple. Travis provided us with practical communication tools that we have incorporated into our marriage. We would highly recommend his premarital sessions for any couples looking to further develop their relationship foundation prior to embarking on their marriage journey together.
Every strong marriage needs a guide.
Over the past 12 years, I’ve had the privilege of coaching hundreds of couples.
But before I ever became a coach, I was just a newlywed—head over heels in love and wildly unprepared for how hard marriage could be.
My wife and I quickly realized that love alone wasn’t enough. What we needed was friendship. The kind that shows up in the mess, keeps laughing when life gets serious, and chooses grace over being right.
That realization changed everything for us—and it’s shaped how I coach every couple I work with.
No matter how different their backgrounds or stories, one thing is true across the board: healthy marriages are built, not found.
And they’re built on small, intentional choices that keep the friendship alive in every season.
That’s where I come in.
My coaching isn’t about giving you a bunch of fluffy ideas or unrealistic expectations. It’s about helping you and your partner build a strong foundation with practical tools that actually work. Tools that create connection, restore joy, and help you become better friends—not just better spouses.
If you’re ready to build a marriage that truly feels like you are married to your companion and not a co-worker, I’d be honored to walk with you.
